Can’t Get No Respect

Can’t Get No Respect

by Shadra Bruce I think all parents must go through a Rodney Dangerfield phase. Coincidentally, this phase starts about the time your kids become teens. At some point, your kids mutate from adoring little angels to some kind of alien species. And the problem is, you...
Keep Your Teen in School

Keep Your Teen in School

by Shadra Bruce The first day I left my kids at the Montessori preschool so that I could go back to school and finish my degree was heartbreaking. I’d been home with them since they were born, and while my older baby was 3 and could understand that this fun new place,...
Shadra’s Favorite Things

Shadra’s Favorite Things

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce These are a few of my favorite things … Lilacs. In my mind, there’s nothing better than the fragrance of a lilac bush. That it’s purple and beautiful too just makes it even better. I’ve loved lilacs since I was a...
The Steps of Letting Go

The Steps of Letting Go

The Steps of Letting Go Emotions run highDuring the divorce grieving processYou feel every one of themTrying to figure out this messManipulated, madAre a few to startFrustrated, betrayedBecause someone broke your heartDenial is the first phaseI hear you go throughNot...
Every Day is Independence Day!

Every Day is Independence Day!

Getting Real With Amalia Starr Independence Day is just around the corner and it became one of my favorite holidays fourteen years ago when Brandon became independent and free. At that time, I too found independence and freedom as well. We never know when we raise...
Poetry – An Emotional Balm

Poetry – An Emotional Balm

MomsGetReal™ Poet Extraordinaire Tammy Bartholomew You’re In My Heart I said I miss you todayEven though we are miles apartYou said you were with meBecause I had you in my heartYou are growing up so fastA strong handsome young manIt boggles my mindThings you can...
Pennies from Heaven

Pennies from Heaven

Getting Real With Wanda Morrissey I remember my maternal grandmother telling me about pennies from heaven when I was a child. I didn’t actually believe that angels (our loved ones who’d passed away) would throw down pennies to let us know that they were okay and...
Sometimes a Pie is more than a Pie

Sometimes a Pie is more than a Pie

Getting Real With Belinda Hulin My husband and I have widely divergent tastes when it comes to sweets. His idea of heaven on earth is a chocolate layer cake made from a mix (with an extra egg added to the batter), filled with vanilla or coconut filling from a can and...
Skype – Closing the Distance

Skype – Closing the Distance

by Shadra Bruce I’ve been on a “technology is great” kick lately, but it’s true. Technology really can be an awesome thing. Not only does it allow me the freedom and flexibility to work from home in a manner that supports my family without...
Roses from the Divine Mother

Roses from the Divine Mother

Getting Real With Lisa Van De Graaff Last week, I received darshan from Amma. Amma is a living Hindu saint, an incarnation of the Divine Mother. She delivers her blessing with an embrace, a hug unlike any hug I’ve ever experienced. While I don’t consider myself to be...