Founded, 2010

Welcome to MomsGetReal, a space for Gen X women who are embracing life after the kids are grown, the nest is quiet(er), and a new chapter is calling.

I’m Shadra, and like many women my age, I’ve worn all the hats—mom, wife, caregiver, advocate, entrepreneur. Now? I’m still all those things… but I’m also a grandma, a traveler, a business owner (with my husband, no less), and someone learning how to let go without losing connection.

Over the years, MomsGetReal has evolved from a raw, unfiltered parenting blog into something more: a conversation about what it means to find yourself again after decades of putting everyone else first. Whether you’re navigating relationships with adult children, cherishing time with grandkids, managing long-distance parenting, or chasing your own long-postponed dreams, you’re in the right place.

We sold everything to live a more flexible life, traveling fulltime so we can work on the road and be close to the people who matter most. It’s not always easy, but it’s absolutely worth it. And I’m here to share what I’m learning—about love, aging, parenting grown-ups, marriage in midlife, and how to keep becoming who you’re meant to be.

Because here’s the truth: We’re not done yet. And real life is better than perfect.

So let’s talk. Let’s laugh. Let’s cry. Let’s get real.

New and experienced writers are always welcome. Contact us at write@momsgetreal.com

All of the women who write for MomsGetReal are dedicated to stripping away the pretense and getting real about motherhood – from the funny and gross to the poignant and scary.

Our growing community seeks to freely share their experiences in order to help others find solutions, solace, advice, and resources that make raising healthy, happy kids a little bit easier in a non-judgmental and supportive way.

MomsGetReal empowers moms to make a difference for their families, in their communities, and in the world.

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