Special Needs vs. Exceptional

Special Needs vs. Exceptional

Getting Real With Shadra Bruce There is a lot of fuss concerning the politically correct terms for individuals with disabilities. Not so long ago the term “mentally retarded” was appropriate, which was exchanged for “intellectually disabled”, which is now transforming...
Should My Kids Have a Pet?

Should My Kids Have a Pet?

A family pet can be a treasured member of the family. Every family will differ in the type of pet that can be accommodated, so when your child is really begging for one you’ll need to really think about what your child (and you) can handle. A dog is a popular choice...
Surviving Summer Break

Surviving Summer Break

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce Summer is in full swing. Now that the kids will be home, you’ll have many more opportunities for quality family time, which is great. However, it’s ok to admit if you felt an inward groan at the thought of summer vacation. What are...
Choose YOUR Path

Choose YOUR Path

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce Dave and I both quit our corporate jobs years ago and exchanged our office spaces for classrooms. We went back to school to pursue what we actually cared about, a decision that may have seemed crazy to onlookers and often seemed crazy to...
(im)Perfect Moms

(im)Perfect Moms

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce Being a mom is a full-time job by itself. Balancing family, your personal life, school and work, as well as everything else that life tosses in your direction can sometimes seem overwhelming. One way to save your sanity and learn to...
Mom is Just a Title

Mom is Just a Title

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce I started seriously dating Dave when Derek was 11 and Kyle and Kira were almost 7. Since being first introduced, the kids had called me by my first name. Kyle called me mom almost immediately; but for a while, he called every woman mom....
5o Ways to Declutter Your Life

5o Ways to Declutter Your Life

Over the last several years, Dave and I have been focusing on simplifying our lives. From not buying stuff just to buy it to using what we have until it actually wears completely out to just enjoying each moment for the moment, we’re trying. Here’s 50...
Raising Picky Eaters

Raising Picky Eaters

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce For years Kira would eat nothing for lunch but PB&J sandwiches. Even into her teens, she still hesitated to eat anything that “looked weird.” Kyle and Derek, on the other hand, are our garbage disposals that all leftovers disappear...
Teaching Kindness to Our Kids

Teaching Kindness to Our Kids

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce One of the many phrases our kids have heard us say over and over again is, “play nice” or “be nice.” But do any of us know what that really means? Such a vague statement doesn’t really teach your child anything. The best way to truly...
Is Your Child Avoiding School?

Is Your Child Avoiding School?

Getting Real with Shadra Bruce Most kids, even if they grumble occasionally, tend to enjoy their time at school, or at least be willing to get up every day and go. When your child refuses to attend school or is so miserable attending school that every morning is a...