Sex Talk for Breakfast

Sex Talk for Breakfast

Talking about sex is not how I envision starting my morning. Well, talking about sex with my 10-year old son is not how I envision the start of the day, anyway. And yet… It was an idyllic morning. The coffee was particularly strong and delicious, the sleep the night...
Blending Traditions

Blending Traditions

The holidays are coming, sooner than later at this point. We start thinking about Christmas shopping around the time the fireworks stop exploding. It’s the only way to budget with five kids. Holidays can be a wonderful time of year, but for blended families,...
Advice for Adult Stepchildren

Advice for Adult Stepchildren

My aunt and I have been through similar situations. Her dad and mine both lost their wives (our mothers) too soon.  Her dad and mine have both remarried. We are both suddenly being thrust into the world of being adult stepchildren, and having having both been on the...
Rewards of Being a StepMom

Rewards of Being a StepMom

Have you ever had someone discount your role in your children’s life because they’ve just discovered that you are “only” a stepparent? How did that make you feel? Having people discount your contribution to the family simply because you did not...
Before Becoming a Step Mom

Before Becoming a Step Mom

I get a lot of email from women telling me heart-breaking stories about not really wanting to be step moms. If you are thinking about marrying a man with children, please consider carefully the following information. There are real differences between dads who only...